I like a bit of luxe. There, I've said it. I don't often like to admit to extravagant spending, preferring instead to tell you about the bargains I've picked up at the charity shop or flea market. It's the Yorkshire girl in me you see. We're not keen on show-offs.
But there's a different kind of luxury we do like (well I do anyway) and it's not ostentatious or showy at all. It's a level of luxury that's accessible to everyone IF - and this is the crucial factor - IF you know how to balance it.
I think it's an age thing, but these days I'm keen on spending money wisely. I'm far more conscious of buying things I love that will last, rather than wasting money on throwaway fashion. I'm more passionate about ethically sourced products, I'm more conscious of the environmental effects of buying cheap/buying twice and I'm more respectful of artisanal production methods.
Don't get me wrong, I still love a bargain, who doesn't? I am proud of the fact that I could furnish a very stylish home out of charity shop and flea market finds and would urge anyone who is strapped for cash to max up on this vital resource. My house is full of thrifty up cycles and if I suddenly won the lottery, would I take the opportunity to upgrade everything to designer brands? Definitely not. But I probably would add a few choice additions to luxe up in areas that I feel would enhance my home.
Here's where it helps to have a Luxe List. These are the items I'm prepared to spend big on in my home and indulge in the very best I can afford. Some of them I already own and now recognise that I could never be without. Others I am aiming for:
The House Candy Luxe List
1) Amazing bed linen
That 5-star hotel feeling every time you slip between the sheets? Sweet dreams baby.
2) A great candle
It might be five times the price of a cheap scented candle but it will be five times better. Do your candle maths because a house that smells luxe, feels luxe.
3) Stop-you-in-your-tracks art
What other bonafide financial investment can you take daily pleasure in and then one day pass on to your grandchildren (who will be forever reminded of your incredible taste)?
4) Wowy wallpaper
I'd like to think I'd always have at least one room in my house that is fully and decadently wallpapered, even if it's a teeny, weeny downstairs loo. There are lots of designer wallpaper brands I love and so many amazing patterns to try out. Above are just a few of my current faves. My decorating mantra? Life is short, make it pretty.
5) A silk dressing gown
So this isn't exactly House Candy and it's a bit diva-ish I know, but since I discovered the difference this little luxury makes to an otherwise highly unglamorous existence, I now know my home will never be without one.
6) A chair of my own
My sister and I used to scrap over sitting in the same arm chair in the living room. Neither of us would budge so we'd squeeze in there together, sacrificing comfort in favour of principles. Ever since then I've never underestimated the luxury of having your very own chair.
Find a style that you love and look at all the bespoke options that will make it unique to you. A vintage chair makeover is one of my greatest pleasures and in fact, some of the most luxurious looking furniture in my house actually cost peanuts. Pay attention to the craftsmanship and if it's a well-made piece, be willing to spend big on stunning fabric and a great upholsterer to transform it into something totally unique and therefore way more expensive looking than it actually cost.
7) A vintage chandelier
I am a sucker for a chandelier and whilst I know there are some great copycat light fittings in beautiful vintage styles, nothing quite beats an antique one. Andy Thornton's is a treasure trove of reclaimed and antique finds and its lighting collection is top of my lust list.
8) China cups
I'm a tea snob and I don't mind admitting it. But simple pleasures should be savoured and a china cup or mug makes all the difference to my morning cuppa. A builders mug or a takeaway cup just doesn't cut it.
9) A delicious dinner service
There's something very decadent and a bit Great Granny about collecting a dinner service isn't there? I don't enjoy cooking and find the whole dinner party thing a stressful situation. I get around it by serving up something really simple on beautiful tableware and find that this way no-one really gives a crap about the food.
10) Fresh flowers
I have a quote on my wall that says "If you have two pennies left in the world, buy a loaf of bread with one and a lily with the other." Inflation aside, bread makes me bloated so I'd definitely buy the flowers. We could wither away together, smelling sweet, not mouldy.
So things change, but currently I'd say these are my top ten luxury purchases. Now when I say House Candy can be anything from a 50p tea cup to a £5,000 chandelier I hope you will have a better understanding of what this actually means to me.
It's not so much their price tag, but what they represent that I believe is important when designing a space that suits your personality. Luxury is a personal matter, but just as it's crass to brag about designer labels, it's also important to take pride in your purchases. Don't buy anything just because it's a bargain. And if you're going to push the boat out, make sure you buy for love, not lust. It's important to know the difference and making your luxe list will help you recognise this.
As luck would have it, I've been nominated for the Amara Interior Blog awards again and this year I am in a new category that is all about showing the love for those precious high-end house purchases. Getting all dressed up and going to a fancy schmancy awards ceremony is a luxury I can only dream about, but here's my chance to make it happen. If you would do me the honour of clicking the link below and voting for me I'll be one pointy leopard print toe closer to living the actual blogger dream. And if you could then share the love we might just be onto something.
PLEASE CLICK THIS LINK TO SHOW YOUR LOVE FOR HOUSE CANDY http://www.interiorblogawards.com/vote/my-house-candy/
Thank you SO much.
In the meantime, I'll keep tapping away on this here keyboard to bring you news of jaw dropping House Candy that we can all at least afford the luxury of lusting after.